Comments on: How to Find a New Career: Avoid These 5 Mental Traps http://blog.brazencareerist.com/2014/07/23/find-new-career-avoid-5-mental-traps/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=find-new-career-avoid-5-mental-traps Personal development meets professional aspiration Sat, 30 Aug 2014 09:50:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.9.2 By: Arlene W. Garrett http://blog.brazencareerist.com/2014/07/23/find-new-career-avoid-5-mental-traps/comment-page-1/#comment-40758 Mon, 04 Aug 2014 13:36:00 +0000 http://blog.brazencareerist.com/?p=17042#comment-40758 But our demands are not always obvious. Watch out for disguised demands,found
in innocent-sounding questions like, “Why do these things always happen
to me?” The real message to your mate in such a question is often,
“These things should not happen to me.” Instead of imposing
irrational demands on yourself—or others—substitute preferences: “I
prefer it this way” can reflect a genuine desire. This softer thinking
is not only associated with a calmer bearing in life, but also opens
opportunities for mutual problem-solving discussions.

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]]> By: DBQChief http://blog.brazencareerist.com/2014/07/23/find-new-career-avoid-5-mental-traps/comment-page-1/#comment-40727 Thu, 31 Jul 2014 16:18:00 +0000 http://blog.brazencareerist.com/?p=17042#comment-40727 Devi, What was the final outcome of the project you discussed with your buddy?

]]> By: Devi Clark http://blog.brazencareerist.com/2014/07/23/find-new-career-avoid-5-mental-traps/comment-page-1/#comment-40691 Mon, 28 Jul 2014 12:55:00 +0000 http://blog.brazencareerist.com/?p=17042#comment-40691 Hi Aeolienne,
Start with your friends: is there anyone you know who wants to make something happen in their own life and who you also find to be supportive? Pick someone who will hold you to account, without putting you down.
If no-one springs to mind, try going to meet up groups or other social activities and get talking to people. The thing is, we don’t really know what is going on for other people until we ask. When you do ask, you may find it easier than you think to identify a suitable person.
There are, in fact, LinkedIn and Facebook groups and Networking / MeetUp groups specifically for others who want to develop their career. You don’t have to know them well before you start.
If you are too geographically distant to meet in person, you can use Skype, Google hangouts or Facetime just as well. Before any of these existed (over 15 years ago) I used to have a phone call with my own buddy every week. We’d spend half an hour speaking about her plans and progress, and half an hour speaking about mine.

]]> By: Aeolienne http://blog.brazencareerist.com/2014/07/23/find-new-career-avoid-5-mental-traps/comment-page-1/#comment-40681 Sat, 26 Jul 2014 11:43:00 +0000 http://blog.brazencareerist.com/?p=17042#comment-40681 Just where am I supposed to find a buddy?

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